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How
To Not Get Killed on the Street
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reprinted
by permission from "Center for Smarter Living"
Street
crime is on the increase in most large U.S. cities. It is also
becoming more prevalent in small communities.
But
you can choose not to become a victim. What you do and how you
do it has a great deal to do with whether or not you ever find
yourself examining the barrel of a gun close up.
Statistics
show that the single best predictor of whether or not you will
be mugged is whether or not you have been mugged before. In
other words, most victims -- through no fault of their own
except ignorance-- invite attack. They send out signals that
they are easy targets, and, believe me, there are many human
predators out there who can read these signals quite well.
They are looking for passive victims, easily intimidated souls
who can be counted upon to create very little trouble.
There
are a few simple rules to follow that make it very unlikely
that you will be victimized.
First,
be alert. Be aware of your environment and who is in it. You
don't have to be paranoid and fearful, but you do need to be
alert to the first signs of danger.
For
example, I was in a marginal part of a major city one
afternoon with few people on the street when I noticed about a
block away a group of about ten young males walking in my
direction.
I
also noticed when they noticed me. There was a subtle but
unmistakable change in their demeanor. Before, they had been
ambling along casually, shucking and jiving. Suddenly, the
chatter ceased and they seemed somehow intent on my presence.
What
would you do?
I
started jogging towards them. As I got close to them, I smiled
and nodded.
Two
of them stepped out into my path. One of them held his right
hand inside his jacket.
"Hey,
brother!" he said.
"Sorry,
brother!" I said, and picked up my pace slightly, running
around them . I'm meeting that policeman." Note that by
jogging towards before the encounter, I established my speed.
By merely increasing my speed when they accosted me, I
minimized my contact with them, denied them any leisurely
opportunity to assess me as a potential victim. And I did not
invite pursuit by having to break into a run from a
standstill. The encounter was over before it began.
Now
maybe these were fine young men on their way back from Bible
study who just wanted to share the good news with me. But my
intuition told me it wasn't a religious pamphlet that one
young man was holding inside his jacket.
This
leads me to the second lesson of street survival. Respect your
own intuition. If something is sounding your internal alarm,
respect it and act on it. You are wiser than you think. You
notice things subconsciously about other people. Do not
dismiss these feelings.
Have
you ever gained anything significant from an interaction with
a stranger on the street? I have not. Those who know and love
me have been the major sources of help in my life.
You
have no obligation to interact with strangers. I am not
advocating being rude or impolite-- unless you sense good
reason to be afraid. But if your inner alarm bell is ringing,
do not stand there giving someone directions. And he can find
out what time it is from someone else and you don't have to
stop and let him know that you have a wrist watch worth
stealing.
Be
alert for loiterers and do not interact with them.
There
are some obvious other small rules. Don't carry large sums of
money in your wallet, if you're a man, or a purse, if you're a
woman.
If
possible, stay out of bad parts of town and if you have to,
travel with another person. This is especially true after
dark.
It's
important to not carry anything valuable in your purse. This
way you don't care so much if some jerk grabs it. Don't wave
your purse around just inviting someone to grab it from you.
But don't fight to keep it either.
Don't
wrap the strap around your shoulder, neck or wrist. And you
don't want a good stout strap either, but one that will break
easily. If your purse is grabbed, a strong strap will not
yield easily and you may be injured. Some victims of purse
snatchers have been thrown off balance, fallen, and received
concussions, broken hips, ankles or legs.
If
you're in a dangerous area, either alone in a place you
shouldn't be in the first place or in the middle of a big
crowd, hold the purse under your arm with a firm grip on it.
But if someone tries to take it away from you, give it up.
Look
at it this way. Anyone who wants to grab your purse and run
away as fast as possible should not be discouraged from doing
so. They're not people you want hanging around, anyway. Scream
good and loud in hopes that some brave soul will trip the guy.
Better
you lose some money and credit cards, than that you should go
to the hospital.
Better
still, simply don't keep any currency, credit cards, drivers
license, keys and jewelry in your purse.
The
best place to carry such things is in a fanny pack with the
pouch in front like a kangaroo momma. Or carry them in a coat
or sweater pocket or concealed on your person to reduce the
opportunity of large losses.
Don't
carry anything more valuable than you can afford to lose.
Always leave all unnecessary credit cards at home. When you
shop and carry a purse, put it in your shopping bag.
Never
hitchhike or accept rides from strangers. Believe it or not,
the majority of women who are raped by strangers were
hitchhiking at the time.
Walk
on the side of the street nearest to oncoming traffic. If
accosted by someone in a car, run in the direction opposite
the way the car is headed.
Beware
of people who approach asking directions; keep a safe
distance. Just say "Sony" and keep moving if you are
in an unsafe area or simply don't like the guys looks. You
have no obligation to be friendly or helpful to strangers on
the street.
If
you think someone might be following you, speed up. If they
speed up also, cross the street in mid-block. If they do also,
start running and yelling loud. Create a scene. Make a
spectacle of yourself. Get out in the middle of the street and
try to wave down a car. Much better to make a fool of yourself
in front of a bunch of strangers than to end up in a hospital
or morgue.
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What
to do when you're looking down a gun barrel?
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If
you are often on the street after dark, carry a second wallet
containing a sizable wad of $1.00 bills and old expired credit
cards.
If
confronted at knife or gunpoint, don't panic. Moving slowly
and calmly, pull out the wallet, open it up and show the creep
the money. Say, "Here's all my money."
Then
toss the wallet to your left side (assuming he is holding the
gun or knife in his right hand) and slightly behind him. Then
turn and run the other way. As soon as you are a couple of
paces away, keep running and start yelling "Police!
Police!"
Remember,
the longer you hang around with someone pointing a gun at you,
the more likely you are to get shot. Your best strategy is to
get away just as fast as you can.
When
you toss your wallet one way and run the other, the robber has
two choices. He can go after the wallet and the money -- which
is what he wants in the first place -- or he can go running
after some guy who doesn't have a wallet and who is creating a
big disturbance and attracting attention.
I
can't guarantee you that he won't shoot at you. He is almost
certainly a nervous, stupid, drug addict who just might be
coked up at the time. But I can guarantee you that this
strategy is your best bet, the one that gives you superior
odds of survival. If the guy is going to shoot you, better
that he should shoot at you while you are disappearing down
the street than standing in front of him where he can't fail
to put one in your heart or head. If its a knife he has, the
danger of attack diminishes geometrically with distance.
If
its a gun, the guy is almost certainly a lousy shot. These are
not people you find on the firing range getting proficient
with their weapon. He may never have fired it before. A pistol
is not a highly accurate weapon. It is very effective close
up, but the odds of hitting anyone decrease rapidly with
distance.
The
guy probably really doesn't want to shoot you. To shoot you,
he has to make a loud noise that attracts attention, something
that he doesn't want. While he is choosing whether to pick up
the wallet and get out of there or start shooting at you, you
are putting important distance between the two of you.
It's
like this: he's probably not going to shoot. If he shoots,
he's probably going to miss. If he doesn't miss, he is
probably not going to hit you in a vital spot. If he hits you
in a vital spot, you are probably not going to die.
Few
robbers are good shots. And most of them just want your
property so they can get more drugs. They don't really want to
boost their odds of going to prison for years by shooting you.
So give the criminal whatever he asks for wallet, keys,
jewelry, credit cards or whatever. Your life and health is
more valuable than your possessions. And even a short stay in
the hospital costs much more than whatever you're carrying on
you.
But
give him what he wants in a way that gives you a chance to
escape.
Except
for your escape, don't make any sudden, unexpected moves. A
nervous criminal may think you are reaching for a concealed
weapon.
If
you don't have that second wallet, do the same thing with the
your real wallet. Toss it to one side and while his eyes
follow it, turn and run for your life.
If
you are confronted with a dangerous situation, cry out for
assistance. Yelling "FIRE! FIRE!" instead of
"Help!" will generally bring faster attention,
particularly if you're in a bad part of town.
Give
the criminal whatever he asks for wallet, keys, jewelry,
credit cards or whatever. Your life and health is more
valuable than your possessions. And even a short stay in the
hospital costs much more than whatever you're carrying on you.
But
give him what he wants in a way that gives you a chance to
escape.
Don't
make any sudden, unexpected moves. A nervous criminal may
think you are reaching for a concealed weapon.
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Reprinted with permission from "The Center for Smarter
Living" www.livesmarter.com. |